The Gap Year Movement

Author: Amy

  • Focus on Your Breathing Like It’s Your Only Job

    Focus on Your Breathing Like It’s Your Only Job

    Ever felt your heart pounding, your breathing go shallow, and your body screaming “emergency” before a big moment? Maybe it’s a high-stakes presentation, a tough conversation with your boss, or a grueling workout that pushes you to your limits. That’s your fight-or-flight response kicking in, leaving you clammy, jittery, and on edge. Whether it’s public speaking, a workplace confrontation, or a brutal CrossFit workout, this panic can either fuel a killer performance or send you tripping over your words—or, in my case, a jump rope. During my gap year fitness journey, I learned the hard way how this stress response can derail you, but I also discovered a game-changing tool to tame it: focusing on your breathing like it’s your only job.

    The Panic Trap: When Your Brain Takes Over

    Think about the last time nerves got the better of you. Maybe your stomach knotted up before a boardroom pitch, your thoughts raced during a CrossFit WOD, or your legs felt like jelly before a big race. For me, it’s often double-unders—those infuriating jump rope spins where the rope passes under your feet twice per jump. Some days, my brain and body sync up, and I string together a few solid reps. Other days, I’m cursing the rope, tripping, and sputtering the F-word in frustration. Sound familiar? Depending on your job, hobbies, or how often you step outside your comfort zone, this panic might hit daily, weekly, or maybe never for you.

    Looks like I’m having a blast lol

    I used to think diving headfirst into chaos was the way to live boldly. Push harder, grit your teeth, and white-knuckle your way through, right? But I’ve since realized that this approach often backfires. Trying to control racing thoughts or force your body to “just do it” can amplify stress, making you feel like you’re fighting yourself. The real key isn’t managing your thoughts or gripping your body tighter—it’s about finding calm through your breath, letting your nervous system settle, and giving your body the comfort it craves.

    Solid Gold Coaching: A New Perspective

    During a goal check-in with my fav coach at Wildfire, I shared that I was struggling to master double-unders. I had been working on my jumping capacity so hard, but was still struggling to get my body and brain to understand how to do the thing. Some days I could get 10-15 in a class and some days I would trip constantly, whip the shit out of myself with the jump rope, and get 0. It was frustrating, and frankly, kind of embarrassing to still be working on these when it feels like everyone else (and their way older sister) can do them without breaking a sweat.

    During our goal review we talked about what I wanted to accomplish and both shared our observations on my current skills. When we got to the jump roping topic she dropped some wisdom that every coach should steal. She asked three dynamite questions:

    • What have you been working on to nail this skill?
    • What progress have you made so far?
    • What happens in your body and mind when it’s not clicking?

    Brilliant, open-ended questions that not only got me talking, but were framed in a way to give me a chance to share all of the good things that I had done so far and progress that I had made before engaging a professional. The last question was the one that gave me a new POV – I had totally underestimated (and completely blocked out) what was happening to my body OUTSIDE of the jump-roping drama.

    Spilling my guts was mortifying. I admitted I’d panic the second I missed a rep, thinking, “double-unders are the WORST invention ever,” before hurling the rope like a toddler. Her questions flipped a switch: I was redlining my heart rate and lungs before I even started, totally sabotaging myself. With a sly grin, she dropped the ultimate game-changer: “Your only job during jump rope practice? Breathe slow and steady through your nose. That’s it – breathe and be calm.”

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    I’d heard and practiced this breathing stuff in yoga and meditation, but her application to exercise was PURE GOLD. Slow nasal breathing tells your nervous system, “Chill, we’re good,” and dials down your heart rate. It’s like a hug for your frazzled body. I gave it a shot that afternoon, and holy cow—I was calmer, my jumps were smoother, and I had some extra stamina. It was like unlocking a superpower.

    Creating a custom rope with Double Under Wonder made things a lot more fun to practice. Plus no more digging through the dangling mess of knotted gym jumpropes, hoping someone didn’t take my favorite.

    Breathing Through the Chaos: A Universal Tool

    That week, I tested the breathing trick again while jogging with my husband. My legs were fine, but my brain was in full panic mode, screaming, “This is so hard right now, I haaaate this!” It was the same spiral I’d felt with the jump rope. So, I shifted my focus to long, slow inhales and exhales through my nose, counting four seconds in and four seconds out. After just 3-4 breaths, my heart rate steadied, the mental fog lifted, and the urge to quit faded. It was like flipping a switch.

    This simple act of prioritizing breath isn’t just for workouts—it’s a lifeline for life’s chaos. Whether you’re facing a high-pressure work presentation, a tough conversation, or a tough workout, focusing on your breath can anchor you. It’s not about suppressing thoughts or forcing your body to obey; it’s about creating space for clarity and comfort. Slow, nasal breathing tells your body, “We’re okay,” allowing stress to melt away naturally.

    Why It Works (and How to Nail It)

    Here’s the deal: slow nasal breathing is like a reset button for your body. It kicks on your parasympathetic nervous system—aka the “chill out and relax” mode—which calms the fight-or-flight freakout. Plus, breathing through your nose boosts oxygen efficiency, so you feel less wiped out. Unlike those shallow, panicky chest breaths that keep you stressed, deep belly breathing lowers cortisol and helps you stay grounded.

    Ready to try it? Here’s your cheat sheet:

    1. Check Yourself: When panic hits, pause. Heart racing? Shoulders tight? Breathing all over the place?
    2. Nose Breathe Like a Boss: Inhale through your nose for 4-6 seconds, letting your belly expand. Hold for a sec, then exhale through your nose for 4-6 seconds.
    3. Make It Your ONLY Job: For 3-5 breaths, forget fixing your thoughts or muscling through. Just focus on that sweet, steady rhythm while you move.
    4. Feel the Shift: After a few cycles, check in. Bet your heart’s calmer and you’re feeling like a rockstar.

    Test this before your next workout class, a big meeting, or even a stressful family dinner. It’s like carrying a chill pill in your pocket—no gear required.

    Pro Tip: Try the Breathwrk App for guided breathing exercises with cute graphics.

    Beyond the Gym: Breathing for ALL the Things

    This breathing trick has become my ride-or-die for more than just workouts. I’ve used it to stay cool during awkward convos, prep for nerve-wracking meetings, and even unwind after a wild day. Stress isn’t going anywhere—life’s too messy for that. But focusing on your breath? It’s like giving your body and mind a relax signal, letting you process the chaos without gripping it so tight your knuckles turn white.

    Next time panic sneaks up—whether you’re crushing it on a long run, tackling a work deadline, or just navigating life’s curveballs—make breathing your ONLY job. Slow, steady, through your nose, like it’s the most important gig you’ve got. Give it a whirl and hit me up in the comments—tell me how it went! What’s your go-to trick for keeping cool under pressure? I’m dying to hear how you slay the chaos.

    xoxo Amy – your professional gap year guide and survivor of self-inflicted jumprope whip atrocities

  • Is Your Body Ready For Your Gap Year?

    Is Your Body Ready For Your Gap Year?

    sunset behind cliff of santorini
    Gorgeous sunset!

    Picture it, you’re standing at the edge of Santorini’s cliffs, your gap year finally here. The sunset is blazing a gorgeous art show of oranges and purples reflecting off the sea. But you’re stuck – knees creaking, breath short, sweaty upper lip, mind too panicked with racing pulse to soak it in and enjoy it. Your dream is unfolding but your body is failing you. Sound far off? It’s not. Most of us hit our 30s, 40s, and 50s thinking that we’re “fine”, but fine isn’t going to carry you up ancient castle bell tower steps or through bustling markets. Your gap year, retirement, or dream vacation deserve a body, mind, and soul that can keep up – are you ready?

    I get it, fitness isn’t everyone’s thing. I’ll let you in on a little secret – I used to dodge it myself. Nachos were my love language, cold frescas my fav, and challenging exercise left me clammy and kinda panicky. At 47, I was “healthy-ish”—a busy professional, not falling apart. I went to CrossFit a few times a week, held walking meetings with my team, and generally moved my body more than sitting idle. But I had a super sore knee most of the time I was working out (or walking in heels at the office), stress of the world I was leaving behind still fogged my brain, and my soul? It felt flat, buried under years of grind. If I’d jetted off then, I’d have dragged through temples and trails, not danced through them seeing magic and synchronicities at every turn.

    Does Your Fitness Match Your Goals?

    What do you dream of doing with time that is 100% devoted to you and your passions? Paint amazing pictures in your mind; make them verbose, vibrant, shining with excitement and wonder. Don’t limit yourself — these are your dreams! What new activities will you try? Where will you travel? Who will you meet? What will you see? What do you want to experience now that you have all the time in the world?

    Now take a good, long look in the mirror and ask yourself if your body is ready to perform at the level of the dreams you just conjured up. What kind of strength is required for new hobbies like skiing, gardening, or Muay Thai? Are you ready to walk 15-20k steps every day to explore in Bangkok? Can your ankles and knees handle cobblestone sidewalks in Morocco? Will you be able to heft that suitcase into the overhead? What if there are tiny staircases down to basement bathrooms with no elevator? 

    There is no shame here, just an honest look at where you are and where you want to go on your adventure – comfortably, confidently, and safely. Preparing your body to be its best raises your spirits, your health, and your vibration within the universe. 

    If the answer is 100% ready, congrats and keep it going. If the answer is ‘oh shit, I might have some work to do’ then make a simple game plan and take action today. Body weight movements are free, easy, and available for you to do anywhere at almost any time (walking, jogging, hiking, push ups, pull ups, squats, sit ups, etc.). And/or get a coach or join a gym. It’s the least you could do in pursuit of living your big, vibrant dream life.

    Your big plans—gap year, retirement, that bucket-list trip—need more than a plane ticket and busy itinerary. Gorgeous sunrises over ancient ruins are off the beaten path. Wineries with killer views sit atop steep hills. Wandering hidden neighborhoods means hours on foot. If your body’s sore and out of shape, your mind’s drained, or your soul’s numb, you’ll miss the magic. Worse, you’ll feel it—every ache, every foggy moment—knowing you could’ve fixed it. 

    When the reality and excitement of my grown up gap year finally hit, I realized my body could be a limiter, or a strong and trusted partner. It’s not (all) about six-packs or winning the workout—it’s about freedom. I realized my “okay” body was self-inflicted sabotage. Years of desk lunches, skipped workouts, and happy hour nachos had stacked up (pun intended). My mind was stressed, my soul starved for joy. Fitness became my reset: a way to feel alive inside my own skin, strong enough for mountains, clear enough for epiphanies.

    athlete ready to deadlift a loaded barbell
    Getting strong for life adventures!

    You might think, “I’m too busy,” or “I’ll start later.” But later is too late when you’re wheezing halfway up Machu Picchu. Your body is your spacesuit for adventure—neglect it, and it’ll ground you. The good news? You don’t need to be a marathoner or special forces. Small changes now can make your gap year epic, not exhausting. I learned that at 47, and it changed everything.

    Practical Steps

    Here’s how I started—small, doable stuff you can steal:

    1. Walk with Purpose: 25 minutes daily, absolute minimum. I’d stride through my neighborhood, noticing trees, waving at neighbors, feeling my legs wake up. Bonus: it preps you for long travel exploration days.
    2. Stretch for Freedom: Try a 5-minute morning stretch—allow your body to wake up a little before you drive it through your busy day; 5 minutes of any type of stretching that feels good. It eases stiff joints, sore workout muscles, and helped me listen to what my body needs.
    3. Breathe to Reset: Box breathing—inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4—for 2 minutes. It helped calm my nervous system after surviving corporate america for 25 years, and helps with mental clarity and big decision making.
    4. Eat More Protein: I know, everyone and their sister is saying you need more protein and to count macros and blah blah blah. Just start with making sure you have a sufficient source of protein at every single meal, and you can add more specificity once you get into that habit of choosing protein first. You’ll feel amazing.
    5. Strength Train: This one is the easiest and somehow the hardest for people to master. You can change your diet and lose all the weight you want, but if you don’t add strength training you are losing muscle mass and just kind of look like shapes, instead of being a person with sufficient muscles for the tasks of everyday life. Do you want to have to ask that stranger on the plane to put your suitcase in the overhead again? Start with body weight movements – push ups, sit ups, air squats. No gym required.
       

    These aren’t bootcamp rules—they’re gifts to your future self, building a body that roams, a mind that is clear to think, and a soul that soars.

    Your gap year’s coming—maybe it’s a sabbatical, retirement, or that long-dreamed vacation. Don’t show up half-ready, limping through moments meant to spark joy. You deserve to climb hills, chase sunrises, and feel alive in your body, mind, and soul. Fitness turned my escape from the matrix from a slog into an epic gap year rebirth. Start today—a single walk, a deep breath, a new workout with that friend that’s been inviting you to their gym. Your adventure’s waiting, and it needs you strong. What’s your first move? Tell me below.

    xoxo Amy – your professional gap year guide and relatable ex-professional still transforming through fitness

  • Gap Year Movement – The Backstory

    Gap Year Movement – The Backstory

    Gap Year for Adults: My Burnout Rebellion and the Movement to Rediscover Life’s Magic

    For 25 years, I poured my heart into a finance career, tackling challenges, working with amazing colleagues, and building a career I was proud of. I was good at it—sharp, capable, and trusted to get things done. But the corporate grind started snuffing out my fire with endless tasks, predictable routines, and a cycle of tasks that no longer felt meaningful. I knew there was more magic and wonder waiting out there, but my job wasn’t where I’d find it. Fading into the background wasn’t an option. I realized the cubicle life was a cage, not a calling, and I was done playing small.

    For my sanity, I made the boldest choice of my life: I quit my big, fat, important corporate job. I walked away, head held high, ready to chase the magic and wonder I knew was waiting beyond the 9-to-5. That leap into the unknown accidentally sparked creation of The Gap Year Movement—a call for grown-ass adults to ditch soul-draining routines, rediscover what sets their hearts on fire, and chase adventure without apology.

    Hiking in the Desert

    My first year, lovingly dubbed Gap Year Hard by my husband, was a wild, transformative whirlwind. Now, I’m diving into Gap Year Harder, and it’s an odyssey I can’t wait to share. Crave more from life or feel stuck in a job that dims your spark? Join the movement!

    Gap years aren’t just for kids bridging high school and college. They’re a powerful tool for anyone craving a life shift, no matter their age. It’s a chance to step through the looking glass and see the world—and yourself—from a wildly different angle.

    Quitting the Grind, Finding the Magic

    My 25-year run in finance was a hell of a journey. I worked with brilliant folks, traveled coast to coast, and made friends I’ll keep forever. But over time, the shine wore off, and the grind turned into a full-on career shitstorm. The work wasn’t even that hard—just relentless, thankless, and understaffed. Everyone and their sister chimed in with opinions on how to get shit done. My body started rebelling, getting physically sick the second I thought about work. I’d stand in front of the mirror, slapping on makeup while conference calls droned, crying silently so I wouldn’t smudge my mascara. Why the hell was I forcing myself to keep going? Bills, kids, savings, that “professional image” bullshit—I had a million excuses, but my soul was screaming, “Get the F out!”

    Those endless meetings were torture—meaningless action items piling up, bullshit talking points I had to conjure up on a moment’s notice, and the constant dread of some new volun-told project. I couldn’t even fake it anymore. My intuition was yelling, but I kept trying to shut her up, pushing through like a robot because who would I be without a big, fat, important corporate job?

    Sound familiar? If your job’s sucking the life out of you, you’re not alone. I hung on way longer than I should’ve, thanks to some amazing colleagues who made it bearable. But eventually, my body and soul said “were done”.

    One day, I listened to my soul and the relentless signs from the universe. I quit. And guess what? The sky didn’t fall. Turns out after 25 years of grind, I’d earned the right to hit pause. The world kept spinning, and I was free to chase new horizons. It wasn’t just about finding escape velocity—it was about reclaiming my sanity and feeling alive again.

    Chasing What Lights Me Up

    Quitting left me staring at a big, scary question: What do I actually love to do? For years, I’d been faking it in finance, drowning in busy work and constant travel. Now, I had time—glorious, wide-open time—to explore. Hells yes! We hit the trails in Sedona often, those red rocks waking up something wild and ancient in us [check out this guide from AllTrails to get started]. I baked about a million crusty sourdough loaves, and became a (bread) dealer for family and a few friends. Our CrossFit gym became a place of refuge for building strength, healing our bodies and crushing goals with our friends. These were things I’d never had space for truly doing and enjoying, and they cracked my world open.

    Then there was Thailand—holy shit, what a game-changer. I experienced my first Muay Thai lesson in a dope Hua Hin gym, that was also a CrossFit gym [Elite Fight Club Hua Hin is a must visit!]. The trainer’s grin and the rhythm of the pads lit me up, reminding me I was living life as a whole new person. After, we wandered a night market and found delicious creations – som tam’s spicy crunch, khao soi’s creamy, coconutty warmth. Each bite was a little adventure, a taste of a world I’d been missing. Every new experience was a clue, a spark showing me who I could be when I wasn’t chained to a desk. A gap year isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about diving into new places and passions to find what sets your soul on fire.

    I stopped white-knuckling life, trying to control every damn thing. Instead, I surrendered, trusting the universe to throw some magic my way. And holy shit, did it deliver—new faces, epic adventures, and moments of beauty that felt like they were meant just for me. I’m grateful every day, knowing my soul called these experiences to me, that life’s timing is perfect, and there’s no such thing as coincidence.

    Gap Year Movement: Join the Ride

    This is the Gap Year Movement, my friends: grown-ass adults saying screw it to soul-sucking jobs, chasing what lights them up, and trusting the universe to catch them. It’s not about having a perfect plan or a fat bank account. Start small—take a weekend to hike a new trail, sign up for that pottery class, or book a cheap flight somewhere wild. Hell, just say yes to something that scares you a little. That’s where the magic hides.

    The Gap Year Movement is for anyone who’s ever felt trapped, bored, or burned out, knowing there’s more to life than the grind. It’s about rediscovering your spark and living with no regrets. I’m in the thick of Gap Year Harder right now and I’m pumped to share the adventures and the straight-up joy. Come on, let’s chase the infinite together—your odyssey’s waiting.

    xoxo – Amy, your professional gap year guide and undefeated Muay Thai athlete

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